Thursday, April 3, 2014

Melissa

She is life's greatest gift to me. The gift I never asked for or knew that I wanted. By the time her little brother came along, I knew how good this motherhood thing could be. He was wanted and wished for because she had been. This precious girl who made me a mother turns 27 this weekend.


Her first moments were spent with her eyes wide open. She was born ready. It seems to me she came to us wanting nothing, and giving every bit of her little self. When her eyes were open and fixed on you she pulled you back from wherever you'd wandered and planted you right in the moment with her. My first "living in the moment" moments came locked in those eyes.

As a baby she was the embodiment of peace. Which means she slept. A lot. And hardly ever cried. At all. I'm not even kidding a little bit. Watching her coo easily in her crib, I caught glimpses of that spiritual peace that passes all understanding.

The first moment I remember noticing how deeply she cared about other people, we were with a group of friends on a day trip. Everytime we got on or off the train, or sat down at a cafe or left a museum, she'd look around to make sure everyone was there. She was three. I could tell stories about how thoroughly-completely-wholly she cared for her baby brother. Or how blessed the families she nannies for have felt. Instead, I'll just keep on watching and learning.

Planes, trains and automobiles. She loves them all. Travel. Adventure. Her first solo over seas trip was at age 8. {and by solo, I mean she and her 5 year old brother traveled as accompanied minors} I love how brave she is.

Then, there's her wide open heart. If you've ever found a place inside of her heart, you'll always have a place there. She's fiercely loyal. And has taught me more about forgiveness than anyone else I know.

My brother used to tell me when Melissa was a child that she had an old soul. She's so sensitive and intuitive. And brings out the faith in me. She trusts in goodness. Always helps me to see the good.

So, as her birthday approaches, I thought I'd take a minute to tell the world about a few things she's taught me over the years. Presence. Peace. Loving Kindness. Bravery. Forgiveness. Faithfulness. From that first wide-eyed moment until now, I've loved learning....with her and from her.




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18 comments:

  1. Happy birthday to her! She sounds like a wonderful person. May this next trip around the sun be one of happiness and health and awesome-ness!

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  2. What an awesome tribute to your daughter! Hope she has a great day, and you get to spend some of it with her!

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  3. Happy birthday to your daughter. What a lovely tribute to her. May both of you celebrate this special day!

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  4. Happy birthday to your beautiful daughter. What a great gift you've given her with this blog :)

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  5. A beautiful birthday to your daughter. We learn so much from our children -more than many appreciate.

    Happy Birthday to Melissa (and may mom enjoy it as well).

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  6. Happy Birthday and lovely 'little photos' for Little Things ~ xoxo

    artmusedog and carol

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  7. Oh what a wonderful post. Wishing her a beautiful birthday! May her life be filled with blessings...as yours has been.

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  8. Beautiful words and images. I can tell that she is well loved and a treasure. Such a joyful post to celebrate the one who made you a mother!

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  9. how absolutely beautiful to read - hope Melissa has a great birthday = what a true gift her presence in this world is. and the pictures were such a nice highlight- :)

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  10. oohhhhhh adrienne, there is nothing little about this!!

    happy birthday to your sweet baby girl, she is so much like you!!

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  11. A lovely tribute for your beautiful daughter! Happy Birthday to her.

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  12. What a lovely tribute to a daughter that has taught you so much! And, isn't it grand that we allow our children to teach us! We are all on this earth to learn from one another, aren't we!

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  13. This was just beautiful. ❤️

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  14. Oh my, this is so touching, brought a tear to my eye!

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  15. Happy birthday! Such beautiful words for such an amazing journey. She sounds wonderful!

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  16. What a sweet post, Adrienne....right from your heart!
    I've had folks say that Marshall has an "old soul", too. It's quite a compliment.

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  17. Beautiful, brought tears to my eyes.

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